Men and Caregiving

A study by the AARP shows that one third of all American caregivers are male, which may surprise many readers. However, this role is often not by choice; men are often forced into becoming instant-caregivers when a parent passes away and siblings are unavailable. This new caregiving role turns even the manliest of men into depressed, lonely, and isolated beings. What’s worse is that men tend to keep their caregiving roles secret. Those who work full time refuse to make their caregiving status public as they worry about stigmas and ruining their career when it seems as though they spend too much time caring while working. The study confirmed that men frequently hide errands, physician appointments, and emergency phone calls at work.

In fact, phone calls and errands are usually the extent of the male caregiving role, which is often a supplement to a female caregiver. In order to be more effective caregivers (especially when they are the sole or primary caregiver), men need to participate in hands-on-roles. They must get out of their comfort zone and assist their aging loved one with maintaining good hygiene, preparing nutritious meals, dressing, and more. Men who are more inclined to be nurturers will have an easier time adjusting to this new role.

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Source: AARP